Today she defines herself as a happy woman. She soon celebrated her 50th birthday, and she is about to graduate in two specialties – scenography and painting. This works, which he wants, he travels a lot and already has plans for how he will move forward. She's Lily. – former housewife by profession, albeit with an economic education, mother of two children and owner of her second life. That life, which she won by fate after the most painful and hopeless acquaintance, which one can imagine this with breast cancer.
For the first time, her cancer appeared uninvited in life before 12 years. Surprised her at 39 years, when you thought, that she was a successful woman, which does this, which you need. The most important things in her life were the children and the man next to her. She looked around at them, was safe, that this is good, which they value. I was a housewife, our children were already almost teenagers. I took care of that, which my family considered valuable. We lived well and I never wondered what I wanted. ” And just then, in the midst of the peace in Lily's home and soul, that little lump on her breast appeared, which stuns you and the only question in your head remains Why exactly me?”. Lily knew the disease and was aware of the uninvited guest, which enters unnoticed, robs the happiness and love of more than one woman, and sometimes leaves children without a mother. Earlier, a close friend of hers fell victim to the insidious breast cancer.
But Lily, of course, did not believe, that this could happen to her too. Not before the doctors make the diagnosis. It was a shock, of course, but I also felt lucky. They removed the lump and conducted a course of radiation therapy , without removing the breast- Alive. Not only you change, but also the people around you. Now I know, that this change was good for all of us, but at first I did not believe, that I will one day get back on my feet. The professional psychologist was the man, which helped her go the hard way to herself and understand, why it should have happened to her. Only the second alarm startled me and made me listen and hear everything hidden deep inside me.
The help of a psychologist taught me to accept myself as I am, to love and forgive myself, both to me and to others. To become aware of my own needs and start taking care of them in a better way. After the most hopeless acquaintance, this with cancer, after the most severe remedial examination, an ordinary housewife and mother learns the most important lesson of her life. to listen to myself, even if it means doubting the truth, in which she believed, to ask for help, when she can't get out of the trap on her own and give a chance to the hidden in herself. That's why I say, that I am a happy woman now, who knows the recipe for health and luck. And I give it to others – don't fight against” cancer, because that's how you increase its power, fight for” health and listen to yourself. Don't be ashamed to seek help, even if you feel betrayed and alone in the mud. Search and you will find!”.
Lily smiles that way, on which the fighters do it, came to the wisdom of appreciating the scars of wounds. Close 12 years after the most brutal and hopeless acquaintance with breast cancer, Lily enjoys the happiest acquaintance with herself. And he has no intention of stopping, will continue to know and develop himself.
