The coincidence gathered two women in a hospital room.. One of them was prescribed by doctors to lie still, the other had to 30 minutes a day to stand up to a sitting position.. Her bed was next to the only window in the room.. The women talked for hours about their families, their professions, friends..
Every afternoon, when one sat by the window, described on “your roommate” everything, which she saw outside.. Жената на другото легло започнала да очаква с нетърпение този половин час, through which she was mentally transported to the outside world.. The window overlooked a park with a beautiful lake.. Swans and ducks played in the water, while the children launched their small boats.. Young lovers were walking along the alleys, strewn with colorful plants.. And in the distance there was a magnificent view of the city.. Winter has come..
Ezeroto lost, but did not lose its charm – the cold froze the fairy-tale figures from the ice, snowflakes danced on top of them.. Един ден лекарите съобщили радостната новина на жената до прозореца: she was already in excellent health and could leave the clinic.. The other patient asked to be moved to the bed by the window.. While her sister helped her settle in, she managed to peek outside and.. numb – on the other side she saw only a dilapidated brick wall.. She recovered from the surprise and asked the nurse why her former roommate had lied to her.. “Not, she didn't lie to you”, the nurse replied emphatically and explained, that the woman had not even seen the wall, because she was blind..
If I don't interrupt her, we can talk for hours about the children.. Те са моят свят.. And the best sound in this world is the sound of a laughing child”, says Women.. She loves children with all her heart.. And they adore her and compete with each other to embrace her.. But it's time to be alone and talk in a feminine way about the most difficult period in her life:.. Women, how to learn?.. Accidentally.. I always thought, че на … казват: Enjoy it, which you have!”.. When you understand, that you have cancer, thank you for every day, that you have experienced it, you enjoy the little things, you realize what is important and what is not.. To which of his relatives did he say first?.. Atanas, my husband.. I didn't want to tell the children right away because of the approaching Palm Sunday, and my two daughters have flower names.. But they felt it..
We told them after the holiday, shortly before surgery.. Синът ми Камен най-тежко го изживя.. He told me: Mom, good thing you found the cancer in time, otherwise we would have lost you.. How your family supported you?.. They worried more than I did.. My husband, my mother, everyone was in shock.. Feeling the empathy of your loved ones is the greatest support.. It's very important!.. Cancer is not a sentence, but the diagnosis.. But still, I'm sure, that you had very difficult moments.. Non-physical treatment is difficult, and mental trauma.. What sustained you?.. Faith.. I am a believer.. I believe, that everyone has a way, who must experience.. My belief is, that the time has not come for me to leave now..
Psychologists believe, that 10 from life is this, which happens to us, but 90 – how we perceive it.. Мислиш ли, that our conversation will really benefit other women with breast cancer?.. Definitely! When you talk to a woman, who has experienced all this before you, as if part of the disease is no more.. Shared pain is not pain.. Conversations with women are very reassuring and at the same time encouraging, who have already experienced breast cancer..
At that moment I saw, that the smile returned to Zhenya's face.. I decided to stop there.. But let's not put an end to this story, because she will continue to correspond from more, and more brave heroines like Jeni Piryankova, proved the Japanese proverb, that a woman's hair can withstand the weight of an elephant!..
